Toke Makinwa tell it all in her book "On Becoming".

Toke Makinwa, Nigerian radio personality,
television host,vlogger and now an author has said
that her ex infected her with an STI severally.
Toke Makinwa in her new book titled ‘On
Becoming’ spilled the bean on how she spoke of
the inadequacies of her ex, Maje Ayida and how
she contemplated suicide, finding God, bleaching
and more.
In the book Toke talked about her 18-month-old
marriage which was started on the 15 January
2014 at a private wedding ceremony with Maje
Ayida her lover for eight years and how the
marriage crumbled.
The Other Woman
“Who was that girl?” I asked
“That’s that girl”
“Which girl?”
“The girl I told you about. Her friends are always
calling me to say she really likes me and has a
crush on me. Her name is Anita.”
“So that’s the Anita girl they say you are dating.”
“I’m not dating her. How can I date someone that
is always saying ‘can I come and see you? I’ll
bring my friend that you think is cute’?”
“I accepted Maje’s explanation and concluded that
Anita was not important . So I’ll be with Maje and
she’d call and I’d tell him, “The girl that has a
crush on you is calling.” And it would be nothing.”
In chapter 8 ‘On Becoming’ titled ‘Hurt’. Toke
wrote about Maje returning from a trip and
infecting her with an STI.
And she said “He had given me an STI in the past.
He’d returned from a trip once and we had sex,
and a few days later I was itching.
‘I went to the doctors and they prescribed
medication, but when I asked Maje about the
infection he denied knowing anything about it. I
went through his PHONE and saw a conversation
with Anita where she complained that she had
been itching.
According to her, it was not news to Maje, more
like an update that she was giving him on a
situation that he already knew about.
“He asked what the doctor’s report said and what
was prescribed. I knew I would be putting myself
at risk if I closed my eyes to whatever he chose to
do on the side. So I went back to putting all my
attention into my work.”